This isn’t a compatibility issue I think. I have a feeling that bricksforge pro forms isn’t saving the data to the acf “date” field properly. Admin columns doesn’t have any issues when the post is created or updated using vanilla acf on the backend. It’s only the posts created using brf pro forms that have these issues. Maybe pro forms isn’t saving the date like how acf saves it. Acf has documentation supporting my claim.
Check the notes section.
Maybe pro forms isn’t saving the date as"Ymd" which is the format which both acf and wordpress use to saves dates in the database.
This applies to the “date - time” too which has its own format which wordpress uses to save date-time in the database. Again check the notes section in ACF | Date Time Picker